Updated: Apr 10
Learn from event mentorship expert May Yeo Silvers as she shares how to turn your manifestation into reality.
It's 2021, people are making new year resolutions, manifesting what they want for 2021. The reality is, the resolutions and manifestations are often the same ones they made last year.
Have you ever wonder why these resolutions and manifestations are not coming to fruition for them? This is because when we create our manifestations, we don’t align these 4 elements. When these elements are not aligned, we are not able to fulfill our manifestations. So, what are the 4 elements? Let me break it down for you.
First: Your Energy
When you think about what you want in your manifestation, do you have a foot on the gas pedal and one foot on the brake pedal?
For instance, you said you want to have your own event planning company, that’s your manifestation. What is the thought that follows immediately after you have that manifestation? Is it, “But I don’t know how and where to start and I don’t have the money to start the business”, or “But I don’t know how and where to start and I don’t have the money to start the business. However, I am going to figure it out. I will find the resources to make this work!" Do you see the difference between these two thoughts?
The first one, you stop right after you realized you are facing the challenges of not having the know-how and financial means.
The second thought, you acknowledge these challenges, but you immediately think of how you are going to solve the challenges so you move forward to fulfilling your manifestation.
Too often, people stop at the “but”. There have immediately talked themselves out of their own dreams because they can’t see beyond the “but”.
Second: Your Alignment
Is what you are manifesting aligned with your core values, your beliefs, and actions?
For instance, you manifest that you want to make 6 figures for your event planning business but you are only wanting to work less than 40 hours a week on your business. You are unwilling to acknowledge the simple fact of “Maximum efforts, maximum results. Minimum efforts, minimum results”. If you have a scarcity mindset and money block mindset, when you think about wanting to make that much money, the first thought that comes into your mind is, “I don’t think I could ever make that much money”. So, it is very obvious here that your manifestation does not align with your beliefs. Your manifestation MUST align with all of you, and when I say all of you, I mean your mental, emotional, and physical state. These three elements must align to help you achieve your manifestations.
Third: Your Actions
Are your actions aligned with the path you need to take to achieve what you are manifesting?
For instance, you want to make 6 figures for your event planning business. One way to grow your business to 6 figures is to consistently do sales and marketing activities for your business.
Are You Resisting?
But you resist going to networking events, you resist going on social media, and you resist investing money to attend trade shows. All these are the actions you need to take to get you to the 6 figures manifestation, but your resistance is hindering you from getting there. And when you do perform these activities, is it to simply check them off your TO DO list? There is no intention or purpose when you are doing those activities. There is no heart and no enthusiasm. You are not fully immersed in the task; therefore, you get distracted and discouraged easily when you don’t see the results.
When we are not intentional in the activities, we are just “going through the motions”. When you are going through the motions, the activity itself becomes mundane, and what’s worst is when you don’t see results doing a mundane activity, you lose motivation. The fact is the “mundane” work you are doing, is actually the foundation you need to build your empire. The “magic” to get to your 6 figure event planning company is dressed up as “mundane” work. Imagine an elite athlete. She practices the same routine, day in day out, with the same enthusiasm, intention, and focus. Every time she is in practice, she treats it like she is in a competition. She feels the same intensity during practice as when she is competing in the Olympics. Business is just like that. You HAVE to go in with a mindset that every time you perform the same task for your business, that task is going to catapult you one step at a time to where you want to be. You have to have the same intensity, focus, passion, and intentionality, just like the elite athlete. You get better and more fluid each time, and you start building essential business skills that WILL take you to where you want to be.
Fourth: Your Commitment
Now that you have the energy, the alignment, and the actions all down pat, what about your commitment? When things don’t go your way, what do you do? Do you climb back up EACH TIME and keep going or you dwell on your “failures” and eventually talk yourself out of your manifestation? Do you start telling yourself that whatever you are manifesting is really not that important? You start to negotiate with yourself. You start telling yourself that you don’t really want that thing that badly and that you are ok with where you are now. You start to doubt yourself and if you could really pull this off. You start having all sorts of thoughts, fear of failure, fear of success, you don’t really deserve to have what you are manifesting, you are not good enough etc.
I am not going to lie and tell you that it is going to be easy to have all these four elements aligned in order to get what you manifest. In fact, it is really hard. It takes A LOT of discipline, self-belief, an extremely supportive environment, and a bulletproof mindset to get to where you want to be.
The good news is, all these can be created and cultivated.
The great news is, that is EXACTLY what we teach and enforce inside our Unstoppable Eventrepreneur mentorship program. You don’t have to walk the path of eventrepreneurship alone. Our community is growing by the day and you have a whole army of eventrepreneurs who believe in you and will pick you up when you fall, every step of the way. If you want to be in this successful, tight-knitted community of #unstoppableeventrepreneurs, click here to hop on a call with me, let’s chat!
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May Yeo Silvers